^ Being around people you like is more important than the climate or location, is the idea. For example I'd rather live with people I love even if the climate sucked, than live in a beautiful place where I don't like the people.
But you weren't talking about raping somebody over the internet. You were talking about it in general, and being quite insensitive, as a number of people have pointed out. This doesn't need to go on any longer, let's just drop the subject.