question about adult diapering: do you just get a diaper put on, and get powdered and whatnot by a woman? or do you actually, you know, USE the diaper and get cleaned up by the woman?
dude, don't ask me. just google "big babies" or something and you'll learn more than you ever wanted about the fetish. I just did a google search for "cowboy" and lucked out.
I think it depends on the extent of your baby fetish dudes.
it also probably has to do with
a) does the person get off on pooping their pants?
b) do they get off on being wiped?
c) do they get off on doing the wiping?
d) is simply playing dress up enough?