Wow, I've never seen anyone get mad at someone asking about tickets on a forum.
I have seen many many people post on different band forums about tickets if a show's sold out. Since it is the gathering place of fans, it's the most probable place to go. But that's just what I've seen, at least.
Anyhow, ironmegron, I live near San Jose. I'd suggest to try going to
www.craigslist.com and put an add there or watch the ads that go up for tickets. I think it'll be your best bet. But there are literally about 60 people I know that are all trying to get tickets to this gig, so be prepared to have to pay more than the ticket price if you can actually find tickets.
This gig sold out in about two weeks, was crazy. I tried to warn everyone that it would. Ugh. So sorry. I'll at least get pictures for everyone in case all of you can't go.