Depends on what kind of metal and what kind of family...
You sir, need to go out more.Yeah, to give a serious answer: no, of course we fucking aren't. I was 14 and a moron once too, and I fell for this deluded idea of UNITYYY or being "part of something" and then was obviously disillusioned as hell at the event of my realisation that it was all a pointless joke (just typical subculture stupidity and pathetic socialising-for-the-sake-of-it games). Fuck crowd mentality and fuck scenes.