Breakups suck

I ended my relationship on sunday. It was so incredibly traumatic that i feel physically ill with grief, and i still havent been able to eat or function normally.
Yknow that sinking feeling you get in your stomach, when your hearts racing a thousand bpm? I've been in that state for the last 4 days, constantly. I'm actually worried i might have a heart attack.


my daddy always told me, "You'll get over it someday... why not make it today?"

amen.

i'm 27 years old, i've had my share of breakups, i know the drill. I'm just wondering why it's so hard this time.

sorry for the rant. i guess breakups do suck :cry:
 
Yknow that sinking feeling you get in your stomach, when your hearts racing a thousand bpm?

Yeah, in my case it felt like my thorax was totally compressed. The minutes/seconds before you know, it´s time to end the relationship...it´s the most brutal feeling I ever had! This happened 4 month ago - I´m over it. Time fucking heals! It´s not just a sentence.
 
I haven't had this experience myself but my closest friend in sweden just broke up with his girlfriend 3 weeks before their own wedding(!).
So last couple of weeks I've been helping him to keep his feet on the ground.

All I can say is try to fill up your days with activities. Go see friends, work on a concept album, use the energy to create something.
Worst is to dwell on it alone. That will make you even more depressed. And be cautious with getting out and getting laid or get into relationships to fast.

Other than that I'm sorry dude.
 
Yeah, in my case it felt like my thorax was totally compressed. The minutes/seconds before you know, it´s time to end the relationship...it´s the most brutal feeling I ever had! This happened 4 month ago - I´m over it. Time fucking heals! It´s not just a sentence.

For me it always felt like I was falling and falling and falling, like loosing all the grip under your ass while sitting...
breakups do suck though, the hopeless feeling of "this cant be fixed" is bad...but time heals, or at least makes things easier :)
 
+1 on everything Mr. Sturgis said, one of my best friends and I had a breakup a few
years ago in the same week, know what?
We both had the fucking best parties the month after our breakups, just got boozed,
partied, got laid and stuff and had a few "boondock saints" moments.