Female friends

[circus_brimstone]

Do you have female friends who you don't want to have sex with? The only staying, female friends I have I've either met in conjunction with work/school/etc., or they're a gf/wife of one of my guy friends. So, the point is, have you ever met a girl who you want to befriend but not bed, which means the relationship is devoid of sexual tension? Girls: feel free to turn the tables on this one.

I must be in a weird state-of-mind tonight.

 

[Danny_Glover]

Do you have female friends who you don't want to have sex with?

naw :hotjump:

 

[NAD]

have you ever met a girl who you want to befriend but not bed, which means the relationship is devoid of sexual tension?

nope. i don't always pursue it, and it's not why i become friends with females to begin with, but if the opportunity arose where i could bang any one of my female friends, i would.

 

[snow2fall]

For some reason, the number of my male friends outweighs the number of female friends by far. And, apart from a very few exceptions, intentions on both sides have always been purely platonic - or I'm just extremely good at ignoring certain things.

I tend to find it easier and less complicated to get along with guys rather than with girls. (No generalizing here, I have some very dear female friends as well.) Even though you guys' simplicity can be scary sometimes, it's often accompanied by a form of direct honesty and straightforwardness that is rare in women and that I appreciate a lot. I guess I'm a bit traumatized by my mother who perfectly embodies all the negative characteristics ascribed to women: moody, hysteric even at times, unable to say what she really thinks, etc.

So, yeah, I do have male friends that I don't wanna have sex with. Friends with very attractive music collections. It's only been lately that hearts got broken this way... Yeah, I know, women can be so cruel.

 

[lizard]

I have some great female friends who I'd never try to sleep with because a) I'm married and b) they are involved with other guys. I would never (and have never been seriously tempted) to fuck up a good relationship just for a few hours of pleasure

That does not mean I haven't been keenly aware of their feminine charms.

 

[General Zod]

For some reason, the number of my male friends outweighs the number of female friends by far. And, apart from a very few exceptions, intentions on both sides have always been purely platonic - or I'm just extremely good at ignoring certain things.

You may be good at ignoring certain things. While I have no doubt your male friends think you're a great person, and honestly respect you on many levels, they also want to have sex with you. I'm not suggesting that they're actively trying to get you in bed. Just that they would be "there for you" if you gave them the opportunity.

Of course, I'm not speaking for all men, just all the men I've ever met.

And by the way, if a boyfriend ever gets jealous of one of your male friends, because he suspects that said male friend has intentions that aren't quite platonic, your boyfriend is right. Don't argue with him. He's right!

We're men. We're essentially decent people, but our penis is the Captain of the ship.

Zod

 

[Erik]

I have a very good female friend who's really rather close to me, one of my best friends. Known her for what, 5 years at least? That's a lot considering my age and whatnot

That said, if she didn't have a boyfriend... Hmm...

 

[Erik]

You may be good at ignoring certain things. While I have no doubt your male friends think you're a great person, and honestly respect you on many levels, they also want to have sex with you. I'm not suggesting that they're actively trying to get you in bed. Just that they would be "there for you" if you gave them the opportunity.

Ain't that the fucking truth in 95% of the cases

Would be kinda refreshing to have an actual unattractive female friend for a change

 

[General Zod]

Do you have female friends who you don't want to have sex with?

I've had a lot of female friends in my life. I'd say I wanted to nail 98% of them. Some of them I did, some of them never presented a clear enough signal that they were open to the idea. Only once did I decline. She was drunk. And while I've always been of the belief that people don't do anything drunk that they don't want to do sober, I chose the high road. This may have been the only time in my life that I exercised restraint (the was a total hottie).

Zod

 

[Conspicuously Absent]

at the moment, well over half of my friends are female. Personally, i wouldn't want to have sex with any of them. It's not that they are unattractive, I just don't want to ruin perfectly great friendships and fun times we have. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy noticing their "attributes".

Even if they offered, i'd have to think they wanted to make the friendship something more before i'd sleep with them.

A couple of the more casual female friends I have I'd bang though.

 

[Dev]

You may be good at ignoring certain things. While I have no doubt your male friends think you're a great person, and honestly respect you on many levels, they also want to have sex with you. I'm not suggesting that they're actively trying to get you in bed. Just that they would be "there for you" if you gave them the opportunity.

Of course, I'm not speaking for all men, just all the men I've ever met.

And by the way, if a boyfriend ever gets jealous of one of your male friends, because he suspects that said male friend has intentions that aren't quite platonic, your boyfriend is right. Don't argue with him. He's right!

We're men. We're essentially decent people, but our penis is the Captain of the ship.

Zod

Truer than truth itself.

 

[J.]

sure I have. I was good friends with lots of slutty sorority girls that I woulda banged in a heartbeat if given the opportunity.

but the best girl-that-is-a-friend I ever had, nope, I didn't wanna sleep with her. but I sure as shit wanted to bang her hot, younger sister.

 

[Hell Mike]

Would be kinda refreshing to have an actual unattractive female friend for a change

er.. why?

 

[HarmonyDies....]

so you could make fun of her

 

[snow2fall]

You may be good at ignoring certain things.

Ignorance is bliss.

Don't argue with him. He's right!

Hehe, I'll argue with him the moment he starts suspecting my gay friend to have "intentions"...

 

[Erik]

ya

no actually just to see what it would be like

 

[lurch70]

what Zod said ...

I know so many women, that mistakenly believe that their male "friends" are so great and all they want to do is hang out and do "stuff" with them.
but then again, women are just as bad as men when it comes to wanting to bed guys ... just less outspoken (at least on public forums)

 

[snow2fall]

at the moment, well over half of my friends are female. Personally, i wouldn't want to have sex with any of them. It's not that they are unattractive, I just don't want to ruin perfectly great friendships and fun times we have.

Replace female by male, and you describe exactly the situation here.

just less outspoken (at least on public forums)

 

[lurch70]

hmm, one of my very good female friends ... at one point we ended up sleeping together for about 2-3 weeks, and realized that while it was fun, we are better off as friends ... and we still are ... I think if the friendship bond is strong, sleeping with someone would not do damage to the relationship ... unless, one of the people has some stronger feelings toward the other ... then it could get tricky ... or glass could end up broken

 

[Tide In Mind Out]

During the day I'm alllllllllll alone out here in the country. I'll have sex with anyone friends or not.

jk

but no I wouldn't do my male friends...I'm thinking back to hanging out with all of them...*thinks* it's been so long since I've seen any of them but NO! They're old gross bastards! lol

And being with Derick is most satisfying I must say. When I've been without him there have been times that someone would make a pass at me and I'd completely NOT get it til a few minutes later then think "heh". It's like my flirting switch is turned off, it is as it should be.