I've heard that you have all lost your mothers, and wonder if there are any Antimatter or Anathema songs devoted to them. It's a personal thing to ask, I know, but I lost mine recently and am looking for ways to understand/cope. Maybe there's something cathartic in music. Thanks for replying.
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Dhatura
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Hm, whenever I listen to Inner Silence, I always think of my grandma, who brought me up and is still alive but quite old now.
insidethefall
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Sopel
the crestfallen
i think the worst thing is to brood on and to torment oneself. always look on the bride side of life...
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miranda B
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Sopel said:
i cant believe you just said that.
have you never lost anyone you loved.
if you did i know you wouldn`t think "'always look on the bride side off life''
cedarbreed
Don't mean nothin'
Maybe Sopel just meant that life has more dark sides than bright sides but when you manage to cope with this idea, it becomes real easier ...
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Bambi
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miranda B said:i cant believe you just said that.
have you never lost anyone you loved.
if you did i know you wouldn`t think "'always look on the bride side off life''
dunno, me and my sister were joking about stuff when we were in the limo at me mas funeral. we'd done all our crying by then i spose
pagan2002
danny cavanagh
micks mum is still alive and kicking as far as i know,
as for songs about loss and family and stuff, check out
crestfallen
alone
fragile dreams
inner silence
one last goodbye
the natural disaster 1 and 2
as for songs about loss and family and stuff, check out
crestfallen
alone
fragile dreams
inner silence
one last goodbye
the natural disaster 1 and 2
LostLenore
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Bambi said:
I had a similar feeling at my mums funeral. I think it was more like an adrenaline boost. I had to be the strong one for my father and little sister.
The whole week I was busy with things, I even wanted to go to a party , just to get rid off my energy. So before the funeral, I was laughing and some people were offended because of that.
But after the funeral I felt completly empty.
You have to go on,life goes on.
And there are beautiful moments (the bright side), but you'll always miss her.
It's not just someone you love you've lost. It's your mother. And that can't compare to losing anyone else. (at least for me, unless... losing a child and that's something I don't even want to think about.)
Sorry guys for being so emotional.... hormones,you know.
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Dhatura
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This thread is hardly believable.
I also laughed at my mother's funeral I guess, at the beginning, having all the relatives I'd never seen in my life come up to us and pretending to be very sorry. I was 9 though. But when I saw her dead body in the coffin, that was a shock.
It's much harder to lose someone when you're an adult, I guess. The pain is deeper. But I don't know about the long-lasting effects of losing one's parents when one's a child, effects one wouldn't even realize.
I can't look at the bright side of life and feel happy. Happiness just comes when it wants, I've got nothing to do with it
I also laughed at my mother's funeral I guess, at the beginning, having all the relatives I'd never seen in my life come up to us and pretending to be very sorry. I was 9 though. But when I saw her dead body in the coffin, that was a shock.
It's much harder to lose someone when you're an adult, I guess. The pain is deeper. But I don't know about the long-lasting effects of losing one's parents when one's a child, effects one wouldn't even realize.
I can't look at the bright side of life and feel happy. Happiness just comes when it wants, I've got nothing to do with it
toolsofthetrade
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if you really listen closely, be at one with your feelings and try to vent out that what's holding you back, you might get a 'message' across.
My dad's always with me, I always believe and do get the help i need sometimes.
But only if it's geniune and cannot solve a problem myself.
My dad's always with me, I always believe and do get the help i need sometimes.
But only if it's geniune and cannot solve a problem myself.
mehdi.i.e.e.e
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when one of me best mates daddy died last year, me and me other mates couldnt stop laughing all the time. not that we didnt care but it was just nervous. i felt a bit crap afterwards, guilt trip you see.
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