graphic band shirts..

Nothing's "too much" imo, depends on who your target demographic is. Besides, a little bit of controversy is great PR.
 
I am a bit mixed on this. Generally, I'm okay with it. But there is no disputing that a lot of other people in the community are not okay with graphic violence - it is, in effect, being forced down their throat. They see it without choosing to when it's being worn in public, and they cannot unsee it.

There is a fine line between freedom of expression and respecting other people. As metalheads, we might be outside the "norm", but that doesn't mean we need to be douchebags about it - respect should be mutual.

So in summary - I really have trouble making up my mind about this.