how to be charming?
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You get a lot of girls to like you, and flirting with them, and after
a while you flirt most with the ones you want... in the process
you make them a bit jealous at eachother and also remember
to win their confidence. A bit arrogance helps, but also being a
good listener... moreover it helps with some female experience
(naturally) and some natural charm (very important)... finally,
it's good to be somewhat handsome...
And the girls you can't flirt a bit with are usually not worth it
anyhow, so there...
a while you flirt most with the ones you want... in the process
you make them a bit jealous at eachother and also remember
to win their confidence. A bit arrogance helps, but also being a
good listener... moreover it helps with some female experience
(naturally) and some natural charm (very important)... finally,
it's good to be somewhat handsome...
And the girls you can't flirt a bit with are usually not worth it
anyhow, so there...
Slynt
Lord and Liar
My advise: Keep yourself fit. I used to have few problems with ladies say 6-10 years back, but since my belly began to grow it became more difficult to get them.
Also, I've found out that it is easy to impress by telling stories, actually.
Also, I've found out that it is easy to impress by telling stories, actually.
MetalManCPA
Papa Opeth
i say this "u have to be fit and built" thing is a bunch of baloney...ive ben arguing that with everyone i know who goes to gym, u dont need to be buff, or ripped to get them girls...apprently i havent yet proven that...maybe when i get one they will see...
u have to have a sense of humor, thats what i think, to give a good impresssion and "charm" them, u have to be funny...
u have to have a sense of humor, thats what i think, to give a good impresssion and "charm" them, u have to be funny...
blakmetalemp
Armed to the teeeettthhh!
There are a couple ways to be charming.
1. Be gay and charmin. Girls seem to be very open with gay men. Of course this kinda limits everything. If you tell them you are straight after pretending to be gay, they will slap you and call you a bastard.
2. Be a fuckin charmin badass. Girls tend to not care about the "good" guys. Yet when their man is beating the holy hell out of them they still say "but he loves me".
3. Be plain ol' charmin. Get nothing.
1. Be gay and charmin. Girls seem to be very open with gay men. Of course this kinda limits everything. If you tell them you are straight after pretending to be gay, they will slap you and call you a bastard.
2. Be a fuckin charmin badass. Girls tend to not care about the "good" guys. Yet when their man is beating the holy hell out of them they still say "but he loves me".
3. Be plain ol' charmin. Get nothing.
Obyeybyeogone
New Metal Member
My friend Jimmy, who has acne (not terribly bad) on his face, he is just as skinny as me, and a foot shorter than me. He has hair to his shoulders, but it's kind of scraggly looking. He gets girls all the time, he's charming somehow, I don't get it.
I'll tell you how to not be charming. If you're just nice, it gets you nowhere, trust me. There's something else you have to do that I don't know how to
I'll tell you how to not be charming. If you're just nice, it gets you nowhere, trust me. There's something else you have to do that I don't know how to
Thorns of Sorrow
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smile, laugh, look directly into their eyes, keep a good distance though, always respect their space. Ummm, ask them tons of question about theirselves, try to relate to what they have done or gone through in any way u can. Dont be afraid to get touchy, i.e Taking her and leading her into the dance floor for a dance...etc etc...BTW I saw the Cruxshadows last nite at the goth club I goto, and I met a great girl...go me go me its my birthday!
blakmetalemp
Armed to the teeeettthhh!
Thorns of Sorrow
My pic is squished
lol i was wearing my still life shirt, and all the uber goths were like complimenting me...lol beides Im on the list at that place
Be a rude bastard. If, for example, a girl comes up to you and asks for the time, say "it's lunch time. Why aren't you in the kitchen, bitch?"
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Slynt
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Obyeybyeogone
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Lina
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You were just searching for an opportunity to use that line, weren't you?Originally posted by Izzy Junior
Be a rude bastard. If, for example, a girl comes up to you and asks for the time, say "it's lunch time. Why aren't you in the kitchen, bitch?"
lumen
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Being nice isn't enough because you have to demonstrate that there's something special about you. Nice is good, but not special.
Here are some suggestions that may (or may not) work:
1. Don't talk too much or too little - if you have nothing to say that can imply there's nothing going on in your head, if you say too much you risk sounding like a know-it-all or that you've said it all so there's nothing more to discover or get to know.
2. Funny is good, but don't overdo it.
3. Don't be excruciatingly nice - pushovers can get boring, or else if you never reveal your more irritable side you risk seeming fake. A little orneriness is good.
4. Be passionate and knowledgeable about something. You can be generally inept as long as there's one thing you can talk about animatedly and intelligently.
5. Be a little mysterious. This one is tricky though because you have to be subtle! It can be as simple as emphasizing your slightly off the mainstream tastes. Never overexplain yourself. "Darkness" is sometimes associated with mystery, but it's a problematic course to take.
Here are some suggestions that may (or may not) work:
1. Don't talk too much or too little - if you have nothing to say that can imply there's nothing going on in your head, if you say too much you risk sounding like a know-it-all or that you've said it all so there's nothing more to discover or get to know.
2. Funny is good, but don't overdo it.
3. Don't be excruciatingly nice - pushovers can get boring, or else if you never reveal your more irritable side you risk seeming fake. A little orneriness is good.
4. Be passionate and knowledgeable about something. You can be generally inept as long as there's one thing you can talk about animatedly and intelligently.
5. Be a little mysterious. This one is tricky though because you have to be subtle! It can be as simple as emphasizing your slightly off the mainstream tastes. Never overexplain yourself. "Darkness" is sometimes associated with mystery, but it's a problematic course to take.
Obyeybyeogone
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