I used to feel this way. When I got my first MP3 player, this changed.
I find that my first listen to any CD is on my MP3 player. The only place I use my CD's anymore is the car (and once I find a good way to play my MP3 player there, I won't need them there anymore). For that reason, I don't have any problems downloading the music before release. The "hype" is still there for me. I know months before that the CD is coming, and I know when it's expected date is, so my anticipated date to hear it is always the release date. When I find it for download early, I actually find myself excited that it was available and I have the chance to hear it early. When I buy a new CD, I no longer "rip it open and play it right away". I actually wait until I get home and rip it to MP3 before I play the CD.
That said, I still love opening the package and looking through the booklet. I like when companies include mini-catalogs of other CD's available from their label (I have discovered new bands that way). I always enjoy physically acquiring the CD and adding it to my "collection". There is still no substitute for owning the original item.
At least for me, the "anticipation" is still satisfied if I download 2 weeks early or wait until I get the physical CD...
((And "yes", I placed my pre-order for the new ND two weeks ago...))
It is a really interesting subject and one that I have debated at length with a mate who downloads hundreds of CDs and no longer buys...
I have been a relentless collector all my life, to ridiculous extremes. I still only download from Band and Label websites, whatever they make available as promotional enticements are fine by me.
This particular regularly gives me a CD with a burn of an unreleased album on it. He gave me a copy of the new album after playing the start of it in his car the other week.
I guess this is where I differ from some other people... I have almost come to embrace this downloading now.
Although he no longer buys CDs, he does spread the word of new and usually underground releases (he is always looking for something new) and several other people buy CDs that they would otherwise not be aware of.
My pre-order went in as soon as I saw the details about ordering. I am still waiting with anticipation for the delivery...
The "competition" record companies have with downloads has forced them to provide tempting limited editions, DVDs and deals which I am sure they would otherwise have not done.
Ultimately, I am sure these additional costs are not being eaten up by the labels, but are coming out of the artists' share, but as a collector it is not bad news.
The downloading has also pushed the price down of CDs over here (Americans will hardly believe the full price of CDs in a High Street store here, like the cost of our petrol!), it is now sometimes cheaper than the equivalent of $20 for us to pick up CDs now.
I personally cannot justify downloading full albums that are commercially available. I guess it rests with our consciences though...
If the quality of the actual CD when it arrives is no better than on the burned CD then I am more than happy, it is a stellar work! If it is better, then so much happier!