Janet, you're a cutie

[Belial]

Granted I was quite frustrated last night due to the argument we had, in which she snapped at me for every other word I said, no matter how objective I was and regardless of whether I was even refering to her or not.

I also felt a sense of loss because it seemed the forum turn from a friendly and civil place to a hostile, adversarial, uncomforatble place. However still I remained civil and avoided saying anything harsh to her. I suppose you could interpret my poll about her as an insult, but I truly meant that as a way for people to get their feelings out in the open so we can move past them, nothing more. There was no hostile intent (from me) about it.

I'm not sure if Jannet will read this, for in the poll she said she was ignoring a certain person and I'm about 98% sure it's me she was refering to.

Anyway, I had a good nights sleep, and I'm feeling much refreshed. I've already put last night behind me and I hope others can do the same.

 

[Misanthrope]

Im glad your live band is back

 

[Belial]

Yeah, you can thank Soul4Raziel for that one.

 

[Jannet]

Originally posted by Belial
Granted I was quite frustrated last night due to the argument we had, in which she snapped at me for every other word I said, no matter how objective I was and regardless of whether I was even refering to her or not.

I also felt a sense of loss because it seemed the forum turn from a friendly and civil place to a hostile, adversarial, uncomforatble place. However still I remained civil and avoided saying anything harsh to her. I suppose you could interpret my poll about her as an insult, but I truly meant that as a way for people to get their feelings out in the open so we can move past them, nothing more. There was no hostile intent (from me) about it.

I'm not sure if Jannet will read this, for in the poll she said she was ignoring a certain person and I'm about 98% sure it's me she was refering to.

Anyway, I had a good nights sleep, and I'm feeling much refreshed. I've already put last night behind me and I hope others can do the same.

Of course it's not you! I apologized to you for cursing at you, and I also realized the error in my ways (I've had 36 hours to think about it after all )

 

[Satori]

Originally posted by Jannet
Of course it's not you! I apologized to you for cursing at you, and I also realized the error in my ways (I've had 36 hours to think about it after all )

That is very commendable of you.

Satori

 

[Jannet]

Originally posted by Satori
Jannet, I'm curious, do you have this much friction with people in real life too?

If so, why do you think that is?

Satori

No I don't. This forum turned into a media circus at my expense. Now I'm not saying that I didn't blunder here and there (post to too many threads, curse at people - and this ONLY after I'd been cursed at I don't know how many times). But what bothered me the most was the double standard! Over and over I explained how I felt wronged, but no one really gave a rat's ass (one person had the audacity to change Lina's post to try and make me look like an ignorant jerk). But everyone was there to the rescue if I said something about anyone. There's only so much you can honestly take, before you become a true BITCH (and Belial was the recipient of this, unfortunately - I'm sorry again!!).

*one person said that I MIGHT have a valid grievance, and Belial and E V I L noticed that I actually DID have grievances. Why is everyone else blind to this?

Does it bother me when I'm cursed at, accused of sub-par parenting skills, and called a stupid whore? Yes. Does it bother me when someone curses at me and includes my SON in the slander? Yes, and it bothers me even more when people think it's hilarious old fun - a joke even!

I wonder how many people took the time to read the entire posts where I felt blatantly insulted? I suggest you look at Lina's "Jannet deleted her thread" thread. I put the entire (or at least most of it) conversation between Lina and me in the abortion thread there.

I am attacked for responding to posts, but in turn people respond back. Does this not put you on the same level? Who will ever shut up first? Seems like very few of you did. I didn't either, so again, puts us on the same exact mentally childish level.
Did you all expect me to be attacked and just be quiet? When people are attacked, it is human nature to defend oneself, whether verbally or physically.

I've apologized. I said that I was acting like a prepubescent punky brewster girl and a 5 year old. I've realized this, and I've stopped. I put people on ignore who are still calling me names and slandering me, but it doesn't bother me anymore because I can't see it. So anyway, that's it, and I REFUSE to explain myself again.

 

[E V I L]

Originally posted by Jannet


No I don't. This forum turned into a media circus at my expense.

True

*one person said that I MIGHT have a valid grievance, and Belial and E V I L noticed that I actually DID have grievances. Why is everyone else blind to this?

Hey I'm the person who said that you "might" have a valid grievance! But, yes, some people are blind. They operate by a warped sense of justice. Let's all move beyond this fact, shall we? I've learned something about human nature vicariously through you. It's a lesson for keeps and it fortifies me. I don't regret it. i hope you won't keep to your resentments either. Please, please. Let's move on. Things come to pass. Ask "Jayde" about it. She's been abused too. But she seems like a happy spirit now.

E V I L

 

[Belial]

Yeah. Jayde caught some bad ones for a time for no damn reason. I felt sorry for her in the "to what extent..." thread where she was ganged up on.

 

[Jannet]

I'm sorry, with everything that's been happening, it's hard keeping track who said what, if I'm not looking at the post directly. But yes, I am past it. Do my a favor though. Go to the "welfare" thread and tell me if I'm right or wrong about what triste said. Because it's following the same exact argument pattern (which I'm REALLY trying to avoid). Please, check it out and see what you think.