Say you were in an instance where you and a group of your friends needed to be in NYC, 4.5 hrs away, on Wednesday morning, and you yourself had a friend who is letting you and as many people as you want crash at her place Tuesday night so you don't have to make the drive super-early Wednesday... Also, you have a car and are planning on driving.
You don't know how your friends are getting to NYC or when. So, the question: if they don't call you and try to arrange something, are you a dick for not calling them and asking them if they want a) a ride and b) to crash at your friend's place tuesday night? Like since they don't get in touch with you, is it OK for you to assume that arrangements for the trip are on a free-for-all, individual, etc basis?
You don't know how your friends are getting to NYC or when. So, the question: if they don't call you and try to arrange something, are you a dick for not calling them and asking them if they want a) a ride and b) to crash at your friend's place tuesday night? Like since they don't get in touch with you, is it OK for you to assume that arrangements for the trip are on a free-for-all, individual, etc basis?