Hey Rusted_in_peace50, I personally think that In Memory is better, so i would buy that, thats the one i'm getting next. It's an EP and only has 5 songs, as Nevermore(1st album, self titled) has more, but isn't as good in my opinion. IN Memory is an absolutely beautiful album.
if you want to choose just download some of the songs off each album.
i suggest from Nevermore you download:
-What Tomorrow Knows
-The Sanity Assassin
-CBF
and from In Memory download:
-Matricide
-Optimist or Pessimist
-The Sorrowed Man
Since there are only 5 songs on it and I gave you three(which is more than half the album!), I gave you one of Nevermore's softest(Sorrowed), the albums heaviest(Optimist) and a classic GODLY piece of work(Matricide).
Hope i've been of help.
Yes, on this board you'll have to keep in mind that Trapped(who is one of the most intelligent and most posting on this board) has a dislike for DHIADW. I don't agree, i thin kits the best one too.