Need help.

[Cuiden-A-Los-Ninos]

What would you do if you needed to tell someone you love something, But you knew that it would crush them?

ive made a really bad decision and i think that my partner is going to pay for it. this feels like shit. anyone help?

 

[BasilisK]

Sooooo...... You've been getting busy with your best friends girlfriend/boyfriend?



If that's not it, I have no clue what you're talking about.

 

[Pessimism]

Kind of hard to help when you have no idea what's going on. So far it sounds like you love an object...not sure if that's correct though.

 

[Vossyrus]

is it drugs? child porn?

 

[scitzo]

pregnancy? abortion? cheating? guessing games are fun.........

Never the less, if you need to tell someone something, tell them. It's that simple.

 

[Cuiden-A-Los-Ninos]

cheating. but only once. and i was drunk. I know it doesnt make it any better. But im really finding it hard to tell him.

 

[scitzo]

If you've slept with someone else (drunk or not) then I find it hard to believe that you actually loved your partner in the first place....but that's just me. If you do then you'll tell him ASAP. The longer you go without telling him the longer you are lying.

 

[Vossyrus]

^ I completely agree with you.

I've never understood how someone could cheat on someone they 'love.' Even if it was a mistake, you should probably tell him otherwise you're only doing yourself worse, and hurting him twice as much.

 

[Cuiden-A-Los-Ninos]

i have told him now. and it wasnt sex, but enough to feel guilty about.

 

[Vossyrus]

What was it then, what all did you do...and how did things go when you told him?

 

[BasilisK]

I'm lost.

 

[Vossyrus]

I'm lost.

You're lost? Well this thread is entitled Need Help, maybe ask for some directions

 

[Cuiden-A-Los-Ninos]

yeah. I think im making a big deal over nothing. He was fine with it. wich is good. i guess i just felt extremely guilty this morning. eh.

 

[The Heartbreak Kid]

Hi.

 

[entanglement]

yeah. I think im making a big deal over nothing. He was fine with it. wich is good. i guess i just felt extremely guilty this morning. eh.

Good.

And I agree with scitzo.

 

[Pessimism]

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[entanglement]

?

 

[Black Core]

I can totally understand this thread (and I mean since I am in the situation right now but just the other way around )

and I agree with scitzo 300%. Also understanding why is important

 

[Pessimism]

I keep thinking Cryptal's sig is are ants running around on my god damned screen

 

[entanglement]

I know!