when my 5150 pops on this board on a giveaway you know whats happening to me lol!
I now guy in North america which have been screwed more than once, heres what happens.
You move in together and get a mortgage between you and live together for 6 months.
She decides to only do part time work after this period or becomes unemployed!!!!
Then she decides to take out the mortgage payment which you have been making thus the interest starts to rocket!!also you dont recieve any mortgage statments during this time as someone has been hiding them!!( she may of forged your signature to do this)
She decides she wants to leave you because you abused her!!
And tries to get a restraining order against you??
Then the law says you have to support her because she is your common in law wife even if she left you and even if she has had an affair.
Then she demands the rest of your wages which are not being used to pay the debt from the mortgage.Thus you cannot afford your lawyer anymore so you either get a loan or let them take it out of your share if theres any left!!
Another trick is that she applys to get a court order against you because you are abusive in some manner, so you cannot go near her this makes it so you have to leave the house you are paying for if she is still resident in it.
And the other trick is for her to drive around searching for you and say you infringed the court order so you get put in jail and loose your job and this happens often so you have to walk around with you cell phone on standby to show its here whos following you
She lives on she state because she is depressed from living with you and this can count as evidence against you even if there is no physical evidence.
She then manages to drag out the court case as she doesnt submit the papers when required to.
Judges seem to not want to place women in contempt of court for this anyway they get away with this alot.
And it turns out you dont have any money until the court case is over and you cannot even afford to run your own car to get to work.
The moral of the story is dont let her have access to your bank account only place some in a seperate account for her.
Make sure the house is in your name and let her pay for the food and heating and dont let her move in make her keep on her flat.
And dont let her buy you any studio equipment or she could ask for it to be sold off if she produces any recipt of purchase of equipment with her bank details on.
I am surprised heather didnt try to get a few of Pauls vintage instruments because he has hundreds of them especially his left handed vintage les Pauls as they are worht 750,000 dollars each.
This long story is about the lengths some women will go to get what they want and I think heather tried to make out Paul was abusive as well.
Paul also has other instruments worth more.
And I am not joking about this New style of Law being implemented in the UK.
I think if they had got married in america she would of been entitled to alot more.
What do you guys think??