My friends are in a pop punk band and they were so kind as to put me on the guest list to one of their shows, and being the good friend I was, I decided to subject myself to the mind numbing set. Anyways, the pop kids were jumping around to the music pretending to mosh and what not, and some older punk guys decided to be cool and run into the "pit" and try to take everyone out, so they did this quite a few times regardless of how dumb it was for them to think they are better than those kids. But anyways, they noticed me standing by myself in agony in the back and one of the guys came up to me and said "you look like you like harder music than this, my friend's band is playing downstairs later, you should check them out, they play loud music, like the deftones" I simply stared at him. Oh well.