I'm glad to see that some ladies (Child of Vision, rottingflesh?, etc...) like "Garden of Grey" and can relate to how sexual it is. Awhile back I posted a thread about everyones favorite "sex music" and got many different and interesting replies. To me it varies with the lady and/or the mood. Some of my favorites include Queensryche's Rage For Order (Gonna Get Close To You), Type O Negative's October Thorns, Lethal's Programmed, Slayer's Reign In Blood (for rough sex) to mention a few. Take Care and Cheers.