Originally posted by IRoN
Stay away from that bet if you do not want to lose your money
I will not judge you for your current choice of an assumption, because I do not want to turn this into a stupid "boys vs girls" fight.
Just explain the following and I'll be on my way:
Why do women rape me with their stares when I'm with my girlfriend, and they do not pay me half the attention when I'm by myself???
Any contribution of real-life experience of males on board are welcome.
Nah! It was a funny thing my friend today when I told him at phone what I'd read here around he kinda agreed with Wat jan said!(meeeeeen!!) But when I told him the statemend I did, he told that women cant love anyway! (
ps. Remind me to kill him when we met!
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Well so far I had noticed around that most people (both men and women) have the intention to notice very much couples. And I cant talk about that frequency of the fenomenon to men as I'm not a man to know exactly what they think, and as it comes to men watching a couple, this thing is quite... "different" if you can get me!
The girl's guy might be pissed off!
It's easier for the girls and let me tell you why then:
1.We the girls dont have such problems. No guy will go to beat us because we are looking him and his girlfriend.
2.The girlfriend usually likes to show of! So she wont mattered if we are looking them!
3. It's in the middle the subcontious will of many girls to have a guy! So instinctly we are wondering what kind of couple is that! Do they seem to fit with each other?
4.We want to confirm kinda what kind of guys are those that are commited! You can hear girls comending many times. "Oh! Look that girl! She's so pretty that it's a shame to have a guy like him!" or "How could this hunk be with such a woman?"
5.Sometimes it's a question that some women have in mind. They see a girl with a guy and they wonder how it would be if they had that guy( or a guy like him) instead! Well I had noticed guys at University that if they didnt have any affair with some girls I talk to I wouldnt have paid on them any attention! One day I was thinking how it would be for me if I had as a boyfriend one of my friends' boyfriend whom I can assure you is not my type at all! Just because that particular girl is very pretty! I just wanted to find out how her life would be with him!
6.we just like gossiping!
Guys and couples are a very interesting matter!
To end with that! A girl if she doesnt know you or you dont try to get her attention,or never talk to her, will NEVER notice you if you are alone. You'll have to be an extremely handsome guy, or very well dressed, or a total freak or acting in public like an idiot or if generaly you are out of an apropriate to you enviroment. Then the girl will notice you and she will make her commends bad or good, it depends the case.
Satisfied with my reply?
Definately this attention is not because they fall in love with you!