which top is better?
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xanina
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the second one is more versatile and not limited to metal concerts. if i have more money i'll get both.
xanina
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Who said the bodom shirt was limited to concerts? I wear mine everywhere minus working with children cause its not allowed. Otherwise I'm sure I would find a way 
Who said the bodom shirt was limited to concerts? I wear mine everywhere minus working with children cause its not allowed. Otherwise I'm sure I would find a way
i have the really bloody one. with blooddrunk cover in the front and last tour dates at the back. I sometimes wear it for grocery shopping and babysitting. but i sense the old people glimpse at me at the supermarket. so i dont wear it outside anymore.
xanina
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Fuck the old people...who cares what they think. You gotta learn to just be comfortable with yourself and stop worrying about everyone staring at you. I work with 60+ teachers and I'm a freak amongst them. I don't care what they think about me. The only person's opinion that matters anything to me at work is my mother's because I work with her. Otherwise I'm just fine being my weird ass self.
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Actually...
I think this is selfish thinking and an universal excuse for doing any stupid thing. Seriously, is it that hard to show up presentable, especially when you work with people that are 60+? It's not respectful at all.
I am not conscious about what I do either, but I do have common sense. Why spread a bad view about yourself (such as freak lol?) when it is completely unnecessary?
OMGFANBOY must wear shirts with blood on them when I know people around me will be completely appalled by it! I IS SMART!
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^ what are you doing up so early?
'that early' is 12.10, noon, here
but you are correct, i hardly ever go online that early, but i've been up since 8 waiting for mah freaking matras to be delivered, but it's here now, and i need sleep
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I do dress a particular way because I care about what others think, but that doesn't mean I'll dress as they want. But I DON'T want to be annoyed by comments and/or being looked in a weird way, so I won't dress as a goth, emo, or anything too "flashy" (in a certain way, lol) the question is
Can you, or not, live with what the others thinks of you the way you are now? If there's a doubt, change. That's it. And YES you can change your "style of clothes" for fuck sake.
Can you, or not, live with what the others thinks of you the way you are now? If there's a doubt, change. That's it. And YES you can change your "style of clothes" for fuck sake.
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xanina
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Actually...
I think this is selfish thinking and an universal excuse for doing any stupid thing. Seriously, is it that hard to show up presentable, especially when you work with people that are 60+? It's not respectful at all.
I am not conscious about what I do either, but I do have common sense. Why spread a bad view about yourself (such as freak lol?) when it is completely unnecessary?
OMGFANBOY must wear shirts with blood on them when I know people around me will be completely appalled by it! I IS SMART!
I look very presentable at work. I actually very much like to wear pretty dresses and shoes. But I'm not going to be scared into wearing certain clothing at the supermarket. I don't care about old people glaring at me in the supermarket with whatever I'm wearing. It takes some people a long time to be comfortable and not so self conscious. Brightkelly was afraid to wear her shirts in the supermarket which had nothing to do with where she works. So why should she be worried about what the people at the supermarket think?
I'm not presenting a bad image of myself. I just know I'm quite different from the other people I work with. It has nothing to do with the way I look. I just act differently, I listen to different music and such. I don't like to go out drinking at the clubs, picking up guys and I get strange looks for not doing that. I just like being myself and they can call me whatever they want to my face or behind my back. At the end of the day, I answer to myself and no one else.
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Ah, alright. Yes, you are right. And old people are always the most stubborn anyway, so most of all ignore them. Must have not read your thing accurately. The only point I wanted to make was that there is really nothing wrong with dressing as to not stand out. And if it makes people you work with more conferable with you, I'd say that would be better in an environment in where you have to work with them in a close space. But, going shopping or such, yeah...that is not something to worry about
. I was rather referring to a work place. Sorry .
xanina
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