@Manny: I didn't think you were, but someone told me otherwise... just wanted to make sure. And sorry about the rambling before, most people don't seem to read back more than one or two posts to follow the story anyway.
Spike: Yeah I was hoping I could go,I even talked to thanny about going,but I don't have the money right now,I am saving up all my money to move out and have a few extra cash just in case.