Anselmo Speaks...

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Dec. 15, 2004 - PHILIP ANSELMO: I Never Got A Chance To Say Goodbye, And It Kills Me -

Keith Spera of The Times-Picayune has issued the following report:
The onstage killing of former bandmate "Dimebag" Darrell Abbott has left ex-PANTERA vocalist and north shore resident Phil Anselmo distraught and questioning his own future.

In a transcript of a videotaped statement released to the media Tuesday, Anselmo said: "People want my reaction to what happened. This is about Dimebag Darrell, purely Darrell. It's not about me or some . . . psycho that happened to destroy the most beautiful person, one of my best friends in the world."

Abbott, 38, was shot and killed Dec. 8 while performing with the hard rock band DAMAGEPLAN at a Columbus, Ohio, nightclub. Three other people, including DAMAGEPLAN's chief of security, died after Nathan Gale, 25, opened fire with a handgun. Gale was an ex-Marine and metal fan reportedly angered by the band PANTERA's breakup. He was shot and killed by a police officer responding to 911 calls.

Anselmo and Abbott spent 15 years touring the world together in PANTERA.

PANTERA didn't achieve widespread success until Anselmo, a New Orleans native, joined about 1989. PANTERA sold more than 10 million albums, collected two Grammy nominations and inspired legions of aspiring hard rock bands. But by 2002, Anselmo, Darrell Abbott and his brother Vinnie Paul Abbott, the band's drummer, had become estranged as Anselmo devoted more time to other projects.

In 2003, they confirmed that PANTERA had disbanded, as the two camps exchanged accusations in the hard rock press. Anselmo was at home on the north shore last week when Abbott was killed. As Ozzy Osbourne, Paul Stanley of KISS, Brian May of QUEEN and other rock icons memorialized Abbott, a devastated Anselmo made no public comment until Tuesday.

Anselmo's statement says that "the heavy metal media destroyed PANTERA." He laments that he "never got a chance to say goodbye (to Abbott) in the right way and it kills me, and I'm so sorry."

Anselmo traveled to Dallas for Abbott's funeral. But he ended up not attending "to respect the (Abbott) family's wishes, and they do not want me there. I believe I belong there, but I understand completely."

"I wish his family the least grief they could ever have, and I know it's impossible. Just bless his family, bless his friends. I love him like a brother loves a brother. . . . I'm so sorry to his family and everyone else who was senselessly killed in Columbus, Ohio."

His statement hints at an uncertain professional future.

"This has changed the entire world, and this is the last you'll be seeing of me for a long time.
 
Been waiting for him to say something, that's about what I predicted. It's gotta be hard to lose a loved one when you aren't on the best terms with each other.

Last time Anselmo said "we won't see you for a long time" Pantera broke up (I saw their last show ever, with Slayer opening), so I believe him yo.

EDIT: Scratch that, 9th to last show. That's pretty close to the end though.
 
Pantera's last tour was with Slayer, Morbid Angel (WHO I FUCKING MISSED BECAUSE OF MY IDIOT FRIENDS, EVEN THOUGH I PAID FOR EVERYONE'S TICKET :mad: ), Skrape, and Static-X. There are very few bands that can go on after Slayer and outplay them, and Pantera did that night. I'm sure it had nothing to do with the fact that Slayer had sort of a down night that evening. ;)
 
General Zod said:
His statement hints at an uncertain professional future.

"This has changed the entire world, and this is the last you'll be seeing of me for a long time."
Phil Anselmo's ego: "OH NOES, Dimebag is getting all the attention. Must think of something to say so people will actually care about me again, since I'm the greatest vocalist, like, ever. Even though I'm a redneck shithead!"
 
J. said:
Phil Anselmo's ego: "OH NOES, Dimebag is getting all the attention. Must think of something to say so people will actually care about me again, since I'm the greatest vocalist, like, ever. Even though I'm a redneck shithead!"
I figured you'd chime in with an insensitive, idiotic remark like this....

SHUT THE FUCK UP. You don't even like any of them, so why bother posting?? :mad:
 
:( I guess no new Down stuff for a while. :(

That must be a difficult thing to deal with... but most of us never say how we appreciate our loved ones as we assume we'll always see them later on. But how later...

It makes me want to tell people I love how much they mean to me (no matter how awkward that may be) and live my life. Not just exist.
 
Papa Josh said:
I figured you'd chime in with an insensitive, idiotic remark like this....

SHUT THE FUCK UP. You don't even like any of them, so why bother posting?? :mad:
Because I'm an insensitive idiot. :Spin:
 
J. said:
Phil Anselmo's ego: "OH NOES, Dimebag is getting all the attention. Must think of something to say so people will actually care about me again, since I'm the greatest vocalist, like, ever. Even though I'm a redneck shithead!"
Maybe. But I give him the benefit of the doubt. They say there's a thin line between love and hate. I imagine the reason the feud was so heated, was because at one time, they were all very close. Tragedy has a way of putting things in perspective.

Zod
 
It sounds like Phil is quitting the music business, at least for the time being. I don't see that quote as pandering to the metal scene.
 
General Zod said:
I give him the benefit of the doubt. They say there's a thin line between love and hate. I imagine the reason the feud was so heated, was because at one time, they were all very close. Tragedy has a way of putting things in perspective.

Zod
Good point Greg, I wholeheartedly agree.
 
like I said, I was being insensitive, but "the last you'll be seeing of me for a long time" is relative.
 
I remember that one time he did and was legally dead for a few minutes, that was a show of STRENGTH BEYOND STRENGTH.

I don't know if I've mentioned this before, and I do think overall the dude is a dick, but I've always thought he had one of the best screams in music. Just completely throat ripping, but at the same time on key.
 
He is a great singer, but his attitude is only so-so. I have more respect for and like the attitudes of some rock or R&B singers more than his.