Dude, the 3rd song at Ralphs which was untitled (at the time) was fucking KILLER and I loved Kevin's drum work on that (the kicks, progression, etc...was GREAT!) and the tritone (I think that song anyways) was sick.
Still, go to youtube and search for Without Grief - Deflower track, 4th track off their first (of two) releases. It is so FUCKING brutally heavy dude. It reminds me of stuff like October Tide/Godgory (vocals mainly) and Edge of Sanity. They did 2 albums between '95 and '97 and BOTH are killer metal, and 2nd one has semblences of Edge of Sanity. Great guitar work, sick vocals, great drumming, et al. VERY impressed as I hadn't listened to them in quite awhile and dug into my sizable CD/burned collection and was like WHOA! Great stuff, BUT 4th track from Deflower SLAYS at the start, fucking in your face brutality and crushing heaviness (and some flavors of Grave I guess on it/2nd album too but you'll see, check the tunes out at youtube as some/all are there from both albums).
Mike