yes, this is one of the reasons i like Rverb, it has built in eq.
Again I treat it very similar to a room mic. I would generally roll off some highs, and play the lows by ear, no rules here. The eq is not as relevant with manually setting the levels of each send. Obviously you will probably not have hats and cymbals cranked or sent at all. It seems like you want a solid answer so I guess I would say my general guide line would be to send little to no overhead or cymbal mics to the Verb send. I would probably roll off most highs (say above 8k or so) and would probably roll off the lows until i hear the "power" going away and then slightly bring it back in until it fits. Sometimes im depending on this track to "beef" up my low end. Other times is just to help the drums sit in a "space".
Hope this helps.