I don't think having a page at Myspace has anything to do with Backstreet Boys or pink shirts. It's just a way of getting your music across to people. Backstreet Boys are shit and everybody knows them. You guys are not and loads of people are out there trying to find a band like yours, so maybe you should try to make it easier for them and try to stick your name everywhere possible. Advertising yourself is not selling out. Only changing your style to something more popular is. Also, if your records don't sell, nobody will give you money to do more of them.