I really couldn't care less about either band, but reading their statements, not really knowing much of anything about either of them and speaking strictly from a psychological standpoint, "Vext" or whatever his name is, sounds like a complete, pathologically insecure ass-bag. "I mean, look at me. If I really hit him, you know what he would look like? And if I had wanted to hit Jennifer, I mean
Shes a woman. Her face would be broken." This sounds like a textbook example of an esteem-challenged, chronic physical abuser's self-flattery disguised as an excuse to me.
I don't doubt that they both own a large chunk of the blame, but just from reading their statements, it's pretty evident that the singer has some rather serious insecurity issues.
I also fail to see how this has jack-shit to do with the Dimebag tragedy. I think that both of these guys are having some very distasteful delusions of grandeur if they're even trying to compare their petulant antics to such a truly horrific and tragic event.
I guess I could've just summed it up by saying they both need to grow the fuck up, already.