Let me try and answer ur questions. I know several goth girls, some elitest "cool" goths and others nice ones
Some dress like they do cos they think it makes them individual (unlike the rest of the goths in the world
) Some because they think it shows they've had a hrad life (which the majority haven't), some cos they just thinks its cool or they want attention.
If they're elitist goths, no metal is not they're style. They only listen if its hardcore techno, industrial, ebm or bahaus/cure/siouxie.
As long as they're not the elitist type they like non metalheads as well.
Most aren't dark minded. If they are they usually aren't goths.
Visiting garveyards is oh so gothic and very cool
Their friends either like them or want to be like them. And nails are cool. There u go, a guide to the gothic female.
(Disclaimer: please excuse all the drastic generalisations in the post above, I have formed these views over a length of time and despite exceptions find they are usually true
Wow, I'm being PC 2day
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