Characteristics of A Destructive Cult:
While not all groups exhibit all these traits, destructive groups will have many of these characteristics and attitudes:
Authoritarian hierarchal control;
Black and white thinking: either or, we they, us them;
Centralized power structure;
Child abuse and neglect;
Competition with other members or with outsiders;
Conflicting opinions viewed as moral assaults and disloyalty;
Control of information within group environment;
Criticism of group, system or leaders is discouraged;
Different beliefs or ideas are perceived as threatening;
Discrimination (economic, emotional and psychological): race, gender, age, religion, politics;
Effusive praise and flattery for leaders;
Enemy making, a common enemy outside the group: other business groups, other religions, other countries, other life styles, other races;
Fear (or feelings of guilt) about the prospect of leaving the group;
Feelings of superiority and exclusiveness;
Gender-based abuse in any form;
Group becomes like a family and is more important than individual's family and outside friends;
Group has the "truth" (the answers) others don't;
Group (system) mission is more important than the individual;
Group's doctrine repeated over and over, lots of repetitious lectures and meetings;
Group leader(s) are looked to for answers involving personal choices in life;
Labeling: Dissenting members, other groups, and different belief systems are given negative labels/names;
Large pay and power gaps between members and leaders;
Loaded language: the group has its own clichés, jargon and slogans that become simplistic explanations for complex situations;
Missionary consciousness: converting others to group ideology, product, beliefs, trying to persuade others to be like "us";
Need leader(s) permission for everything;
Overuse of plural pronouns: we, us, they, them;
Peer pressure: non group ideas receive icy silence, ridicule, or condemnation;
Propaganda used to persuade members and internalize group ideas;
Public humiliation or embarrassment in any form;
Public sharings, testimonials, confession, witnessing;
Scapegoating within or outside the group;
Secrecy between members or between different levels of a group's structure;
Selfishness is putting yourself above the group;
Strict dress codes, everyone looks alike;
Suppressing legitimate feelings when they do not fit the group's mind set;
The need to be like leaders or like others in the group;
There is always something to do, excessive business;
There is a group explanation for everything;
Thought control: there are "good" and "bad" thoughts;
Unquestioning obedience to authority.