Arline
Member
Very interesting thread. I wasn't going to respond to this one, and the more I thought about it, I decided I will speak my mind on this, as honestly as I can. We spoke about this in length in the van after the NY show.
We open ourselves up to you guys through this forum, and try to keep in contact with people, because we feel this is a great way to give people something extra out of us. We're not obligated to do so, and many bands want nothing to do with their own forums. The problem is, sometimes things go too far. Does the heckling piss us off? YES. IT DOES. It's disrespectful to us on many levels, but more importantly, we're not on stage to fuck around for a few of the forum guys. We're being PAID to do a job, and put on a great show for the couple hundred other people who paid money to see us.
We would never come down to your job, and shout at you when you're working. Maybe it was funny the first couple of times, but now it's whipping a dead horse, and the jokes are getting very old.
By responding with everyone on the forums, people begin to look at us as "friends" and consider us all buddies because we joke around here. This is the place for the jokes, not while we're performing.
Shouting the names of our songs you want to hear us play live, is not heckling, and we would never mind that. Shouting the names of other bands songs, because you guys know the lazy comparisons irritate us in the press, just to try to be the "funny guy" in the audience is disrespectful, rude, makes us question why we open ourselves up to it, and can easily keep us from posting here as often. You guys all jumped on Jasonic, telling his to chill out, and actually he's right.
SO, after saying all this... Under the circumstances, we do joke back on stage, but we would rather not be put into that position. We don't hold any ill feelings towards any of you guys who did this, and as Will said, he came to Chicago, and then to NY, so we put him on the NY guest list. We DO APPRECIATE you guys coming out to see us. Like I had said earlier, we're being paid to do a job, and others have paid to watch us perform. If you want to come up to us after the performance, and joke with us, we're all for it. Just keep the forum jokes away from the stage next time.
oops my bad sorry