Yeah it's tough to be in the pit if you're female. I try to be for every show, but I get beaten and pushed around so easily because of my small frame. I'm half the size of most of the guys in there, and they still slam against me or have use me as a ladder to get on the stage. I've walked out of the pit many times with bruises on my legs, arms and back, but that's really the only way I can enjoy metal shows - being right there in front of the band, up close to the music. It just adds to the experience. Any other way just isn't the same, at least not to me. The things I do for metal...