I've been a fan of A series and Avedis crashes myself, I've played on Paragons as well and they are awesome for crashes- they're all very durable for hard hitting drummers from what I've seen/played. The Zildjian Oriental for a china is awesome, but if I were gigging with it I would be worried to hit it too hard and cracking it over time but it's amazing nonetheless- I would look into Paiste RUDE's too man for a china just in respect to their durability- those are nice. As for hats I use Z 14 mastersound hats and they are nice for I'm using them for but probably not as bright as I would want them to be- I have heard of drummers matching up tops and bottoms from different series... I'm trying to remember who specifically but they guy I'm thinking of matched a 13 K on top and a 13 mastersound Z on bottom and it sounded noice. I don't think brightness should be the main focus though, you should just go to a shop and find what sounds best to you. Darker cymbals might be better but who knows everything everyone else has suggested is badass. Look into Alchemy and Istanbul cymbals too- This probably isn't helping hahaha