Netherlands/German Sneapsters! Help!

Sorry, there are only 2 decent metal shows in my area (quite a bit from the netherlands, at least 6 hours by car)
and they are fully booked, probably couldn't pay and your music is to progressive for both events-too bad because
I am really digging it.

Asked a friend who gets 30 on Saturday and wanted a band to play at his party (probably 150 people, outdoor)
but he didn't get the permit, last year there played 3 bands, got a little stage in a tent with a decent pa and stuff.