ms. anthrope
back off, mofo...
You should ask someone that's actually addicted to the stuff and I bet they'll give you a real answer that will change your perspective on why you don't understand how it could happen. It can and it does happen. You ever watch Intervention? Even though these people brought it upon themselves, most of them want to be rid of it more than anything else in the world and they can't do it. Some people it takes years of use to become addicted and others it just takes a couple times. You should consider yourself lucky that you're not one of them.
AMEN, kevin. i couldn't understand it myself before. i didn't grow up around addiction/alcoholism and had no clue what it was like until the last few years. it's all about the drugs/booze and *nothing else* matters.
it's still hard to grasp at times.