I agree Dora. And if you feel that way, then you must be able to be happy for the individual members knowing they will be more happy. IF they decide to split up.
My point was that ultimately it is their decision and, personally, I think those kinds of decisions have to be made without thinking about how other people might feel. I wouldn't want them to stay together and be miserable. I want them to be happy. Whatever it takes.
Their music gave me support when I was down. Their concerts showed me I was not alone. So therefore I would like to give something back and be honestly happy for them, no matter how much I will miss Katatonia as a band.
But nothing's certain! IF....