That quote is highly interesting to me because it reflects how dimensions are measured different depending on your environment and experience. Like you I have became a sissy too, I'm not confortable in crowded places, with high volume music, not even local concerts anymore: smoke, crowds, bad view of the stage, etc. So you look at KIT and say that's a small festival, to me that's huge! I'm not sure I'll be confortable even at something like that, I think damn I finally had a good spot and now I have to endure three bands I don't give a damn just to wait for the one I really like, and if I exit to pee or look for a beverage kiss the good spot goodbye.
Frankly I rather spend all my money in an album that will last forever than attend a gig whose memory will fade in 2-3 months. So is a conundrum, a part of me dies to see my hero bands play live up in front of me, and another just want to stay home, cozy and listening the music at a sensible volume.