Tricks To Getting...
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Captain Beard
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Stop talking to her, it goes away eventually as you put your mind on work, hobbies, or even new women, really.
Edit: You ARE referring to an ex yes?
Edit: You ARE referring to an ex yes?
Captain Beard
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Then my post stands. Cease communication, it just keeps the fires kindled, and find things and people to keep you busy. If you're on friendly terms, you can resume talking some time down the road.
Liverslapper
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im having a problem similer to that, im also very confused and don't know what to do, its to complicated to even begin talking about it. hope it all works out Burti
taking some time off to reflect upon yourself, and find what you did wrong and what you didn't, and make this a meaningful experience that will help you grow. On top of this, do everything David said
Will Bozarth
Everlasting Godstopper
Det Som Engang Var
Viking Bastard
Soooo true.
I tend to just supress bad things I don't want to remember out of my mind. It's a fucked up way to do things because it will come back to you and give you severe moods swings and occasional depression but for the most part you'll forget about it.
Will Bozarth
Everlasting Godstopper
Lunar Still
Doodle drawrer
My brother has gotten himself worked up into an absolute mess over an ex, mostly because they actually STILL HANG OUT. What these guys say is true: do not talk to her.
Chromatose
Squid pro quo
Jeff-Loomis-fan
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this isnt easy you know because
My ex-gf cheated on my with a friend...atleast he was before that...
and some friends of mine where also friends with the both of them...i cant make people stop being friends because such thing happens..and i dont wanna lose friends...
then again a colleague of mine is also friends with her...and everytime i want to go to the cite i come by their home ...because they now live almost in the city
and now she happens to work in a cafe i used to come ALOT...
i wish it was an easy thing to break all communication...if it was i already did it
Cat5Messiah
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Hawng
Internationaly known
When I found out my wife was cheating on me, I tried to be her freind and about lost my mind and my freedom. So I moved 400 miles away told her we couldn't be friends and I haven't talked to her in about 8 month. It is getting better. If I would have stayed, I might have done something I would have regretted.
Staying away from her is the best plan.
Staying away from her is the best plan.
Jeff-Loomis-fan
Member
This scenario probably isn't applicable.
for me it is...this also a reason why i cant wait to move from here...
but 9more months to go and i move to a different city
Vincent J.
Member
No, it really depends... You just need to do what feels best.
If you sence yourself longing for the girl again when you talk to her, knowing you can't ever have her back, you shouldn't talk to her, because in the end it might hurt you more.
But if the whole break-up left you with lots of questions you should talk to her, because you really should know perfectly well what it is all about... Otherwise you might dwell upon unanswered questions, and when just having had a break-up behind you is the perfect time to fill the empty spots with wrong negative crap... which is not to be recommended
And well, in the end it's not one of the two ways that works better. There are no short-cuts or something, you just need time. My only hint to get through it is to keep your dignity and don't dwell in past happiness
Calamitas1786
doom cock....
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Dead_Lioness
Godless
OH wow......
I'm sorry to hear that man... I just now noticed the location changed...
fuck
