Erik: I am glad everyone is free to do what he/she wants.

And of course I know that many of the bands are drunk themselves, or becoming it while being on stage.
Just think about the nice chemical drugs of the techno-scene, or the "love the plants"-movement within the rastas... At least I am interested to keep as many of my braincells working as possible, after all I have some more interests besides music and want to perform well in them (and earn my living). So I don´t shoot myself out at all the gigs... But everyone else feel free to do so.
Anyways, drinking is for many people rather a social habit than a true need for alcohol.
EDIT: the only thing I basically wanted to say, and Erik tried to ignore

is, that there is no natural relation between metal and alcohol, because alcohol is drunken for many purposes and independent from music style. It´s actually the same as the invented connection between listening to metal and killing people or such

You know, every one with long hair being a criminal.. that way...
|ngenius: I am not very tall, and that doesn´t really help

But I have my methods to not drown and often get in first row

(which have nothing to do with doing harm to anyone..)