I'm here!
thx for the thoughts guys. wife is home from the krankenhaus. she's going through some wicked shit left over from her pedophile ex stepfather. sucks.
cause the thing is, they say a pedophile rarely abuses just one kid...so they have not just one victim but potentially a whole string of victims.
my mother in law won't talk about it because it would force her to admit she couldn't keep her child safe, and my brother in law, despite being about 250 lbs of ex marine killing machine, feels guilty also because he was her older brother.
Years ago I had a girlfriend who had a wonderful pedophile of a father, but she stayed strong and grew up into a good life. Even able to enjoy sex, something she couldn't do for many years. She's like, married with a kid and stuff now. About the only ex-bint of mine that I still truly care about.