Hey,
Sooooo I am in a fucking shit of a position at the moment.
My band is meant to play a Battle this Friday.
Problem is everyone seems to not give a fuck about practicing.
Singer hasn't written his lyrics yet, bassist trys to avoid practice, drummer DOESN'T practice unless its AT band practice.
People just don't seem to be pulling their weight.
I am the main song writer of the band, I program all the loops(the singer is meant to be the keys player) I write the drums(out of habit, I can't stand writing guitar and it being empty with no drums) I teach the bass player how to play bass correctly.
I can't stand this shit.
I put so much effort into getting a set together(we started writing a set and practicing again a couple of days after we found out about the battle, a little over weeks ago now) organizing practices, programming all our sounds, getting our live loops prepared, teaching the bassist the songs.
This band has been together since last year and before the start of this three week period we had maybe 6 practices SINCE THE START OF THE YEAR.
It seems to me like no one is committed except for me.
Like no one else even gives a fuck about their instrument except me.
I've jammed with the singer and drummer since I first started playing.
I've played a lot of shows with them.
They are cool dudes, and cool dudes to play music with.
I just don't think they can take music seriously.
I'm thinking it may be time to call it quits on this band and ever trying to have a musical relationship with these people.
They just don't seem to put any effort into the music.
I said to my self before we started to practice for battle that this was it.
My last shot at playing music with these guys, that if they didn't try hard to get their shit together that I would call it quits on this band.
Fuck I gave up a position in an established band in Melbourne that was already signed and had their shit together to be in this band.
The worst part of it is that there are hardly any people in my area who are good at their instrument bar a band that I am friends with and could have potentially joined(but didn't due to my singer in this band being kicked out of that band, and their former lead guitarist who I am friends with being kicked out, didn't wanna ruin a friendship for a band)
I think maybe I should just message the organizers of the BOTB and tell them we can't play.
I don't want to walk on stage with a band that could win if they tried just to lose(we've won battles before against established bands in our area, and this battle has some pretty pathetic bands playing)
Fuck I am sounding like a huge arrogant cunt.
But I'm trying to tell it how it is as much as I can.
Anyone ever been in a band like this?
Any one wanna give me some advice on what to do?
I REALLY like the music we write/play and the guys in the band are my best friends and we get along great, but it just seems as if none of them can put the effort in.
I'm sitting here waiting for a reply from my bassist to know if he is coming to practice, when he said he would come at 3 oclock today.
And waiting for my singer to come around so I can help him write his lyrics because they need to be in for the battle tomorrow.
Shit is just stressful.
I could have been in a nice acoustic duo or jam band entering this battle and had a fun time and it would have been chill.
But no, I chose this band over that because I didn't want to compete against my self.
End arrogant rant.
I really must of come off like a jerk if you read all that.
TD;LR In band, people don't put in much effort, should quit, maybe?
Just really needed to get that shit off my chest and maybe get some help on the matter.
Cheers,
Ionei.
Sooooo I am in a fucking shit of a position at the moment.
My band is meant to play a Battle this Friday.
Problem is everyone seems to not give a fuck about practicing.
Singer hasn't written his lyrics yet, bassist trys to avoid practice, drummer DOESN'T practice unless its AT band practice.
People just don't seem to be pulling their weight.
I am the main song writer of the band, I program all the loops(the singer is meant to be the keys player) I write the drums(out of habit, I can't stand writing guitar and it being empty with no drums) I teach the bass player how to play bass correctly.
I can't stand this shit.
I put so much effort into getting a set together(we started writing a set and practicing again a couple of days after we found out about the battle, a little over weeks ago now) organizing practices, programming all our sounds, getting our live loops prepared, teaching the bassist the songs.
This band has been together since last year and before the start of this three week period we had maybe 6 practices SINCE THE START OF THE YEAR.
It seems to me like no one is committed except for me.
Like no one else even gives a fuck about their instrument except me.
I've jammed with the singer and drummer since I first started playing.
I've played a lot of shows with them.
They are cool dudes, and cool dudes to play music with.
I just don't think they can take music seriously.
I'm thinking it may be time to call it quits on this band and ever trying to have a musical relationship with these people.
They just don't seem to put any effort into the music.
I said to my self before we started to practice for battle that this was it.
My last shot at playing music with these guys, that if they didn't try hard to get their shit together that I would call it quits on this band.
Fuck I gave up a position in an established band in Melbourne that was already signed and had their shit together to be in this band.
The worst part of it is that there are hardly any people in my area who are good at their instrument bar a band that I am friends with and could have potentially joined(but didn't due to my singer in this band being kicked out of that band, and their former lead guitarist who I am friends with being kicked out, didn't wanna ruin a friendship for a band)
I think maybe I should just message the organizers of the BOTB and tell them we can't play.
I don't want to walk on stage with a band that could win if they tried just to lose(we've won battles before against established bands in our area, and this battle has some pretty pathetic bands playing)
Fuck I am sounding like a huge arrogant cunt.
But I'm trying to tell it how it is as much as I can.
Anyone ever been in a band like this?
Any one wanna give me some advice on what to do?
I REALLY like the music we write/play and the guys in the band are my best friends and we get along great, but it just seems as if none of them can put the effort in.
I'm sitting here waiting for a reply from my bassist to know if he is coming to practice, when he said he would come at 3 oclock today.
And waiting for my singer to come around so I can help him write his lyrics because they need to be in for the battle tomorrow.
Shit is just stressful.
I could have been in a nice acoustic duo or jam band entering this battle and had a fun time and it would have been chill.
But no, I chose this band over that because I didn't want to compete against my self.
End arrogant rant.
I really must of come off like a jerk if you read all that.
TD;LR In band, people don't put in much effort, should quit, maybe?
Just really needed to get that shit off my chest and maybe get some help on the matter.
Cheers,
Ionei.