Uladyne - that's about right..
Phase isn't something which needs to be 100% in or out.. just what sounds best.
If you can't tell a difference when flipping the phase, and it sounds great - then there are no problems.
When mixing, again, it's about what suits the song.
Sometimes you can use phase to eat up certain frequencies by using cancellation instead of EQ.. sometimes you add body by "fixing" the phase relationship.