To lose someone close is a hard thing to do. When that someone close is lost for a stupid reason, it makes it that much harder. I have lost a family member to MS, and a close friend to cancer. My uncle was only 52, my friend, She was 19. I know how he feels because there is nothing you can do. It is such a terrible feeling to know no matter what you do, it will not help. I alway's liked the song "pieces" and alway's felt bad for Frankie and Charlie, when I heard that song. It definetly goes right to the heart and leaves a lump in your Throat. Now it will be even harder to listen to.