You need to lighten up on the gore man. That really cuts down on the amount of good DM out there. Who gives a fuck if there's gore in there, it's just a fucking song.
There's gore and then there's gore. There's battles and fights and death and shit like that, which is fine with me, and then there's raping corpses. I'm fine with a decent amount of violence, as long as there's some point. Simple homicidal rants just don't interest me. My tolerance for stupid gore is a little over "Reign In Blood" level. I'll listen to gory shit, but everything else had better be incredible.
I'd like to amend/clarify my request: Stuff need only meet 2 of the criteria, i.e. gory music but good grunts and no blast-beat abuse, or absurd blast beats but good grunts and it doesn't ruin my appetite.
To Darkbliss, that stuff is pretty good...vocals a little black metal-y but it's all good. Their mySpace only has stuff from the Abnormal Deformity demo, though...