i was pissed off, earlier i wrote a loooong post and when i press "submit reply" all gone again. and i had to go off. but now i try again.
Megawozniak said:
I don't think headbanging is bad manners - I was just careful where to do it.
Megawozniak, that's what i meant when i said "cultural difference".
Here, in sell out concerts like Angra's or Strato's, we seldom find the space. especially in front. so, in our common sense;
- To go in front means to go crazy, taking the risk to get into the hair storm.
- If you want to watch the show quietly, you go in the backside of the venue, where people are milder usually.
And if someones hair touches me, i would think "shit, i'll do it HARDERRRRRR"
then some strange feeling "we unite" arises, after the show we wink to that stranger with devil horns in our hands; as if saying "you were not that bad
" (which i experienced in PP VI too)
it's like greetings or hails to the artists to me. i guess we are just crazier.
Obviously we are talking about ProgPowerUSA here, not concerts in Japan. But when i said i never ever expected someone would complain about the hair in a metal concert, it was all true. i was honest. so knowing all these people don't like it, i thought i should be careful because as much as i want to enjoy myself, i don't want to spoil the others joy. please excuse me if i there is anyone who was borthered by my hair, i simply didn't notice i was annoying.
freakchylde said:
she was saying she wouldn't do x or x due to an etiquette issue based on what others have said.
freakchylde, i said i will be more CAREFUL
i respect your sophisticated and peaceful way of watching. actually i felt more pleasant not pushed from behind there.
AngraRULES, did you actually tell her that you felt unpleasant with her hair? i feel sorry you had to endure all through the set and hold it to yourself for a long time, i usually tell the person directly when someone does the thing i don't like, even if it's a bigger guy than me. People often got carried away seeing the show and doesn't notice what the others are feeling.
someone said security stopped her.. i don't know if he explained that you guys were bothered by her hair or just did "stop" action, but if the latter, i might have done it harder. 'you don't know anything about the fucking metal concert, i'll show you how to metal '(with the hightone voice of Klaus/Dream evil in "the book of Heavy Metal")
yep i'm a helpless barbarian!
but if the people next to me said "hey you are doing too much" i would say, "oh i'm sorry" then i would try to calm down, as i said before, i don't like to ruin someone else's fun.
i think it's good to discuss like this, as Orphaned Land played awesome gig and it's a pity that you couldn't enjoy the show as much as you wanted. For the reasons i mentioned above, (actually English is not my mother tongue and i spent almost 2 hours to rewrite this to explain,, in monday morning before going to work!) i assume she didn't realize she was annoying you...
It might be better that we comunicate to get the decent environment, even during the concert, inbetween the songs. as i love the peaceful and relaxed atmosphere of ProgPower USA, and sad to hear someone didn't enjoy the excellent show by the things that might have been changed..
ok time to off again. i'll copy and paste before click "submit reply" this time!