It's all about striking a balance Shadow, and we clearly have different ideas of what that "balance" is
(she still looks plenty feminine to me, look at that face and those curves; as I said, though, the second pic is too much, but that's cuz she's right in the middle of something, and the certain type of lighting highlighting the muscles, etc.)
And how can you say her arms are too much in that last pic? There's like barely a bit of tricep definition, otherwise they just look slightly thick, which I love (not a fan of the thin wispy ones)