how the buggering bugger have i missed this thread
well, it was a while now since i read the original post so lets forget that for a second
gutted you latched onto a bike there dunc, but you got rid i gather and thats the main thing. i think everyone, men and women alike are entitled to one night stands in moderation - shagging yer fella, his dad, the postman and the cat nextdoor is never cool, islander or not capish? (sp?
) i think
thee most important thing is that both parties know that what will be going down on said 'one night' is a 'stand' - im talking in nobhead terms ....hang on ....*cough* .....right, its important that everyone involved knows its just a shag and not a marriage proposal. that doesnt mean the people in volved are heartless/loveless etc....i've had a one night stand in the past and it doesnt mean i dont want to be madly in love with some yadda yadda yadda, it just means me and a bloke both wanted sex and we both thought the other was a coll kinda person. end of story. i didnt want anything more to do with him and the same on his part. no one gets hurt, goals are accomplished.
i think views on this kinda thing often draw a big dividing line (or a big red line for frodnat
) between people. say if i met somebody who had the opposite opinions on one night stands to me, and we got on really well and liked eachother loads etc, then discovering what i thought about all this may clo ud his view on me. that is a sad truth im afraid, even if like me 'shameful loveless sex' only happened once some men are a bit funny about it - like their women white (or an off-cream biscuit)
having said that though, any bloke who took that attitude with me would be on his arse on the curb.......i dont know this turned into a really long post and im not sure ive made a point.....btw did i mention on this board that i got an A on my RE paper??
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