What are you smoking that is keeping you so deluded? John would have stayed in the band had Charlie and Scott not pushed forward with the reunion, especially since they were gaining momentum with what many consider one of their best albums in WCFYA. And then they expected John to come crawling back when surprise, surprise things didnt work out with Joey AGAIN?
Let me draw an analogy for you:
Youve been happily married now for 12 years. Your wife has not only been very happy with you, she has also bad-mouthed her ex-husband (lets call him Joey, for sake of argument) on numerous occasions, including publicly. Then, you have what both of you consider some of the best sex of your marriage (Weve Cum For Each Other). In spite of that, your wife decides that she wants to get back with her ex-husband Joey. She tells you she doesnt know if it will be serious, they just want to have some fun with each other, tour around the world a little bit, and see what happens, just for old times sake. But hey, youre still part of her family. She asks if you want to join them in a threesome. Having a lot of self-respect, you politely decline, handling with a lot of class in the process and not even bad mouthing her, even though many others see her as a dumb whore that stabbed you in the back. But guess what, after a year or so, that relationship that didnt work out with Joey 12 years ago didnt work out again now. Apparently, your wife and a few of her ex-husbands friends are the only ones that didnt see this coming. But since your wife is single again, she comes back to you and asks you if you want to get together again. There was a time that you loved her and would have done anything for her, but she hurt you and insulted you, so you politely decline again. Youve moved on with your life. Maybe she can hook up with some young naïve guy named Dan
maybe she can find happiness and great sex again, but she doesnt have the killer body that she used to, so theres a good chance that most people wont notice her anymore anyway.