One thing that always makes a difference with ur programmed drums is routing from the vsti out to multiple channels. So u can eq/treat each "mic" separately. SD2 is awesome for this cos there are so many mics.
Another thing, drums don't seem to have any natural reverb at all. Where are the room mics? Snare still needs more crack, so turn the snare bottom up. But it all depends what ur going for obviously. Music isn't meant to sound the same.