Yes I fell into the trap. Not as bad as a lot of people I know, or from stories I have heard, but none the less got into trouble. The mother of my son, who has now left the state(which I am happy about) had alot of debt from collection agencies, and so being the nice guy I am I paid it all off for her. I figured we were gonna be together for a long time(doesn't everybody?) anyways I paid off as much as I could with cash, the other amount , I used the trusty old card. Well that, the amount I already had on, which was not a whole lot, all added up to a hefty sum. Me and her then split, and I went and bought a house, and there are always things you need right away for a house(remeber this Brat when you buy your house) and after putting the down payment down on the house I was left again to add to my debt on the cards. Well My son was born a month and a half later, and he had many complications that kept him in the hospital for 3 and a half months. You can imagine the things I went through with that. I ended up quitting my job so I could work closer to him,(he was in a hospital an hour away from me) and put some more debt on the card eating out all the time. Then came time for me to get custody, and the lawyers fee's, blood test's, back child support, which is bullshit because he never even lived with his mother. Well after all of this I had some hefty balances on a few cards. All had decent APR's , but I did not like having all the debt on card's and having to make all the payment's(which was always the minimum) I just got done getting a consolidation loan from the bank, so in 4 short? years I will be rid of all the debt. Now I only have 2 cards with extremly low credit lines, which are for extreme!! emergency's. And after all this hell, I can really say it is all worth it because I have custody of my son, and he is really come along way to being a normal healthy boy. Sorry this is so long, but it felt good putting out my story for all the world to see.