Reality, just something to ponder
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Karmic
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LORD_RED_DRAGON
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The Really Hot Chicks Always Get A Little Anoying After U've Known Them 4 A While Cuz They Think They Can Get Away With Being Bitchy Just Cuz They're Sexy
Depends on how good looking you are dumbass. If you're really good looking, no matter how sexy the chick is, she'll never bitch cause she'll be afraid of losing you. Damn man, you think like a fucking 8 year old.
neal
wizard in black
Guerrilla said:
G-spott!!
No matter how hot the guy OR lady is, it's the inside that counts!
What matters is self-esteem!
How good looking that guy may be, if he doesn't treat his lady well, it depends of her self-esteem if she'll buy it yes or no.
That has NOTHING to do with how good looking you are!
And btw, it can be the other way around too, it cuts both way.
"squid pro quo"
Iris
And btw, it's even more scary, if you find out you lost yourself, because you have lost your self-esteem!!
You better be afraid of losing yourself then your partner!!
Otherwise you'll be dependant of one's existance.
Ok, it's cool if one can make you whole, but without the other party? You must be confident about yourself.
First love youself before you'll love another...but that's in my opinion,
you don't have to agree with me, i don't care..i just say what i believe in, that's all.
ForbiddenAngel
IT AINT GONNA LICK ITSELF
Iris said:G-spott!!
No matter how hot the guy OR lady is, it's the inside that counts!
What matters is self-esteem!
How good looking that guy may be, if he doesn't treat his lady well, it depends of her self-esteem if she'll buy it yes or no.
That has NOTHING to do with how good looking you are!
And btw, it can be the other way around too, it cuts both way.
"squid pro quo"
Iris
And btw, it's even more scary, if you find out you lost yourself, because you have lost your self-esteem!!
You better be afraid of losing yourself then your partner!!
Otherwise you'll be dependant of one's existance.
Ok, it's cool if one can make you whole, but without the other party? You must be confident about yourself.
First love youself before you'll love another...but that's in my opinion,
you don't have to agree with me, i don't care..i just say what i believe in, that's all.
Hell F'in YEAH! Couldn't have said it better myself. Preach on SISTA!
PlatypusJesus
A Dead Sun Serenity
Exactly, it's vain to think that looks are all that matter. Of course, most humans are vain, but even with that point being made, most people would still determine their love more on personality than on looks. It only makes sense. Guerrilla, you might want to work on that personality thing, but of course, that is just my opinion, and you would be a worthless conformist if you followed it.
PlatypusJesus
A Dead Sun Serenity
And I don't get why most people can't understand that love is connecting with another human being, not just fucking. Sure, it's fun, but if it's all that you have, it is nothing.
Sorry, I'm not a romantic. The feeling of being in love can be very easily substituted with chemicals, and if it's communication and understanding you want, well that's what friends are for. This leaves the field open for meaningless sex. Come on now don't tell me you don't like the theory.
Well..meanningless sex, doesn't say anything to me!!
I like to have a meaningfull sexlife, thank you very much!!
Sex without love?
Is no fun to me and sex needs to be FUN!!
If it's only based on lust? I would get bored very easily!!
So, sorry..i'm not a lover of theories, i'd rather practise my own preaching, that way i stay true to myself!
Iris
I like to have a meaningfull sexlife, thank you very much!!
Sex without love?
Is no fun to me and sex needs to be FUN!!
If it's only based on lust? I would get bored very easily!!
So, sorry..i'm not a lover of theories, i'd rather practise my own preaching, that way i stay true to myself!
Iris
PlatypusJesus
A Dead Sun Serenity
And where exactly do those chemical reactions take place? In your brain. And em....what makes you, truly you? YOUR BRAIN. Ah, are you beginning to see the connection. I've said this before, and I shall say it again, anything and everything is real because it all takes place in your brain, and your brain is what makes you a person.
PlatypusJesus
A Dead Sun Serenity
I didn't notice your signature until now, Iris. Cool crown! So what are you saying? We can fry our brain trying to feel being in love using chemicals?
What? Like you said man it's all in your brain. Being in love is not a need, it's a desire. If you can fool your brain into thinking you're in love, there you're done. Plus, if you think about the fact that all love is is chemicals flowing in your brain, well the whole concept seems a bit ridiculous. I'll pass for now.
What? Like you said man it's all in your brain. Being in love is not a need, it's a desire. If you can fool your brain into thinking you're in love, there you're done. Plus, if you think about the fact that all love is is chemicals flowing in your brain, well the whole concept seems a bit ridiculous. I'll pass for now.
Well, just thinking you're in love, doesn't take you anywhere!!
You need to feel it!!
And besides, the brain needs food to create that..not just pictures you paint in your head...no!!
MEMORIES!!!
Best drug in the whole world!!
Why?
Because it's based on reality! And in my opinion?
That's the best soil to sow the seeds of dreams on!!
iris
You need to feel it!!
And besides, the brain needs food to create that..not just pictures you paint in your head...no!!
MEMORIES!!!
Best drug in the whole world!!
Why?
Because it's based on reality! And in my opinion?
That's the best soil to sow the seeds of dreams on!!
iris
PlatypusJesus
A Dead Sun Serenity
Man, what I said flew right over your head, didn't it? I said that what makes you you is your brain. And if that is true, then whatever you think, feel, believe, dream, see, hear, imagine, etc. is real, because it all takes place in your brain, and your brain is you. And no, being in love is not a need, I never said that it was, but love has been reduced to such a low standard by society. Love is two human beings making the highest of all connections. Their souls meet and join. Love is spiritual, not chemical. But now, all love is, is two people meeting, thinking that they like each other enough to get married, and then usually that ends up in a divorce because they realize that they are not truly in love and that they can not live with each other for the rest of their lives. And then you have some marriages based on sexuality, and they hardly ever last. The only reason that some do last, is because the two people force themselves to stay married. I also think that marriage undermines love also.
ForbiddenAngel
IT AINT GONNA LICK ITSELF
Guerrilla said:
Damn Guerrilla, you really don't know what your missing..... Though I've been there done that with subsituting chemicals for................ah basically everything at one point in my life.............And then I fell in love and the chemicals were no longer needed. Well, actually I was forced to choose, and I chose LOVE over "chemicals". Best decision I ever made...
Celebrating 2 years sobriety in July.
neal
wizard in black
drugs are good, sex is good, love is good. the downside is all 3 make people act irrational and do stupid ass things sometimes haha. oh well.
-neal
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