the bleed of the cymbals is the biggest issue with room mics and that's why some producers/engineers like to track the drums in two sessions - shells first and second the cymbals.
i tried it and i'm really pleased with the result - for the first time i could really squash the room mics ( mono room, stereo wide and fx mic in another room) - no fx reverb added and the kit is my best sounding yet , i think!
but this way to do it is so super time consuming, it's unbelievable.
quantizing the shells first for playback and then quantizing the cymbals to the shells - it's like editing two songs instead of one.
but for a normal recording setup with the whole drumset there is no other way to get rid of the cymbals than to not squashing your room mics to hell.
so it seems like i'm not that sort of a big help for you, sorry!!
somebody mentioned to time allign the room mics to the kit - doesn't make sense to me, cause the delay is what makes the room sounding big.
some people like albini even delay the room mics for 20 ms to get rid of comb filtering.
best,
alex