I'm not exactly left 'more wisely', bub
. And this'll be even LONGER... Of course I know what you're talking about, but there's a difference between real trauma done to a child's psyche by things like violence and molestation and what is typical of someone like Dance with Death (not saying I know that person in the least) that you're a bitter teenage kid with alot of self-pity who is into alot of things that are outwardly negative and probably get off on the rebelious feeling of listening to metal music, etc.
I'm also not angry about stuff like this, I feel compassion and pity for people who waste precious time being so completely miserable and for no real reason. They aren't happy, they aren't pleased with life, but they will continue to be that way, and be convinced that they have some actual GREATER understanding of life, when they really don't get anything at all. They see half of the picture, if that. They wear their malcontent like a badge of honour, and consider themselves above others, who must just be naive. That's hardly the case. Its this person who needs to drop the facade and just be a real, healthy, normal person.
I don't say its a case of needing to get 'a pair', but of maturing and understanding the value in life and of being in touch with the basic fact that everyone else feels the same things you feel, good and bad. Everyone gets disappointed, everyone has moments where they hit what is to them rock bottom, even the guy with a big house, nice family, who is smiling all the time. I know I have, and not too long ago. But when you understand what an amazing thing the world, the universe, life, and everything is, all intertwined, I find it hard to dwell on the few, but certainly significant negative aspects of MY life.
If, however, you REALLY don't feel anything for another human being (and Dance with Death, I'm sure actually DOES feel things, he/she is no Ted Bundy, just a kid) then you do belong in the looney bin, because the only thing to keep you from violating another person's basic rights is the penalty of the law. We all know how good a deterrent that is to an irrational mind in a bleeding heart society where prisoners labelled as mentally impaired get sent to a hospital to do easy time.